“Dreams can come true, but there is a secret. They’re realized through the magic of persistence, determination, commitment, passion, practice, focus and hard work. They happen a step at a time, manifested over years, not weeks.” ~Elbert Hubbard
In my last post, I invited you to ask me a question about my writing or books and some of you did. As I said in that post, I really enjoy the question and answer part of any book talk I give. That’s an easy and fun time when I’m not just speaking but talking with my friends and readers. So it was fun seeing the questions some of you had this week. I did answer many of those questions in the comments, but I saved a few for tonight’s post.
Ann said she always wonders about a writer’s process and workspace and asked, “Do you have an office or do you just write wherever you are at the moment?”
When I started writing as a young girl, I hid out in my upstairs room and scribbled in my notebooks. That was in an old farmhouse that was heated with a woodstove and so my room was often cold in the wintertime. But a person can wrap up in a quilt and keep writing. After I married and was a young mother, I began writing on a manual typewriter that I set on the kitchen table often with my baby on the table beside me in one of those little plastic baby carriers that would be considered dreadfully unsafe in this day and time. After we had three children, we built a house but it didn’t have any extra rooms for an office. So I had a desk in the kitchen. Eventually, I had enough success to warrant building an addition onto the house with an office for me. I told the builders I had to have windows on both sides of the desk. That’s where I still work now. I found a picture from sometime in the past when I had my desk nice and neat. You wouldn’t want to see a picture of how it looks today. Papers somehow reproduce on my desk top. But the windows are still there.
I write on a computer these days. The monitor screen is my paper. I am not a fast writer. Once I have my idea and my research done and am ready to actually type “Chapter 1” and begin, I try to have a goal of writing five pages which is about 1300 words each day. That doesn’t sound like a lot but if I can do that each day, I can have a book written in a few months. My books are usually between 80,000 and 100,000 words. Once I have somehow put all those words down to tell my story, then I’m ready to do what for me is the easier part and edit to make the story the best I can.
I have had to write in places other than my office. Once when I was trying to meet a deadline and had a trip scheduled, I wrote in my hotel room and scribbled in a notebook on the long flight home. But here at home, I generally keep my fingers on my keyboard in my office.
Linda asked, “What was it that made you want to be a writer?”
I wanted to be a writer from the time I first started reading books. I loved the magic of words and putting them together to make up stories. I began writing my first book when I was about ten and wrote a Hardy Boy type mystery starring myself, my sister, and my cousin as the mystery solvers. From there I went on to writing short stories as a teen that thankfully were never read by anyone. After I married, I began trying to write stories somebody might want to read. But I don’t really know what made me want to be a writer. Sometimes I think I must have been born with the desire to write stories.
Jolynn asked “Where do you get ideas?”
That might be the question I get the most when I do give book talks, especially if I’m talking to young people. Where do the ideas come from? I could answer everywhere, but that isn’t a very helpful answer. Those who wonder about ideas want to know where or how to find the gold nuggets of creativity. The truth is that each writer has to find that creative gold in his or her own way.
I have gotten ideas from things I’ve read. The idea for River to Redemption was inspired by a short article I read about unknown Kentucky heroes. My Rosey Corner books were inspired by all the stories my mother and my aunts shared about growing up during the Great Depression as they reminisced about some of the odd characters in their neighborhood. My Heart of Hollyhill books were inspired by what I remembered about life in my small town in the 1960s. Some of my novels come from researching actual historical events and wondering how my imagined characters might have lived through those times. Some of my ideas come from a place like the Shaker village near me.
Many times when I’m ready to come up with a new idea, I will do a “what if” page. For example, for The Refuge, I thought what if I had a young widow at a Shaker village. A Shaker widow with nowhere else to go? What if that young woman was widowed after she and her husband joined the Shakers, intending to only stay a short while until a cholera epidemic passed, but then her husband dies in an accident? What if that young woman then finds she’s expecting a child in a place where marriage relationships are forbidden and everyone is supposed to live as brothers and sisters? As you perhaps can see, one what if question can lead to more what if questions that have answers I discover as I write the story. But as I said at the beginning, the truth is that ideas come from everywhere – what you read, what you remember, what you feel, what you experience and more.
Lucy asked “How do you balance writing, enjoyment, family, etc.?”
Not too well at times. I spend a lot of time in my office where I’m very thankful for those windows. I do take time for family, especially my grandchildren, who are growing up now and don’t need Grammy to babysit them any more. I’m not the greatest housekeeper, but I do have the regular chores of the cleaning, cooking and laundry, etc. It helps that I don’t have to work an extra job now that I’m retirement age. I never worked a full time away from home job, but I did work part time for a number of years. Then a farm wife always has extras to do. I have to make time for church. That’s a given. And of course, the dogs have to have their daily walk. I guess I simply do my best to work everything in.
It was more difficult those years when my mother needed round the clock care in her last years. I was fortunate to have a sister to share that struggle and we were fortunate to find a couple of caretakers who covered some of the hours for us. But it was harder to balance writing, family, and caretaking then. Now it’s more in my lap with motivation and perseverance to get things done.
I used to keep this quote written on my desk calendar to help me stay motivated.
“Nothing in the world can take the place of perseverance. Talent will not; nothing is more common than unsuccessful people with talent. Genius will not; unrewarded genius is almost legendary. Education will not; the world is full of educated derelicts. Perseverance and determination alone are omnipotent.” ~Calvin Coolidge
The Winners Are:
I know I said one winner, but I decided to do two. Hope S. and Maria F. were the names that came to the top of my giveaway drawing hat. I’ve heard from Hope. She picked my book Words Spoken True, one of those stories inspired by some dramatic Louisville history. I haven’t heard from Maria. So Maria, if you see this, check your e-mail messages.
As always thanks for reading.
Did I answer your questions? Did it make you think of something else to ask? If so, ask away.
What is your favorite room? Is it one with windows?
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I love windows too. In my new apartment my bedroom has 3 Large windows which I keep my plants on. In the afternoon the sunshine is so nice in there. Altogether in my large apartment I have 11 windows and a sun porch where my little Yorkie Zoey loves to sit in the sun. You remind me of John boy on the Waltons. God has blessed you with a great talent, love reading books too.
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Thank you, Marjorie. As best I remember, John Boy was a wannabe writer on the way to success. I suppose he was the one remembering all the stories. It’s been a while since I’ve seen the Waltons. But wasn’t it nice to have programs on that were centered around family and good morals?
Sounds as though you have plenty of nice places to sit in the sun and enjoy some of your favorite books with Zoey keeping you company.
Yes today the sun is shining and we are able to sit in the porch and enjoy the heat from the sun. It’s a bit cool outside but they say it’s going to be warmer by Monday
I love this post! I love lots of windows too. My sewing room looks much like your writing room. And I wouldn’t dare share a photo of it’s current state either….it’s organized chaos at it’s best. I also have a sunroom with walls of windows looking out over the lake. It would be my preferred sewing space, but there’s no door to keep curious grandkids out. So now it’s the playroom/children library room. Lots of windows = great reading rooms!
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Glad you enjoyed the post, Lavon, and you’ve actually made the trip to hear me answer some of these questions in person. Oh, and working people can’t always keep everything super neat. But I really should straighten up my desk. Might help me not lose things all the time. You know, where you lay down a piece of paper and then it slides down under things while you’re not looking.
A grandkid room and library room sounds perfect.
I love rooms with windows! The natural light is soothing.
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And staring out windows sometimes helps me think of the next words to write, Caryl. Sometimes it just lets me see the bird feeder is empty and who can write anything with the bird feeder empty. LOL.
No questions from me this morning, but oh, how I have enjoyed your chat this morning. I just wish I could have chimed in as you “talked” so it was a real conversation. Your posts are as warm and real as if you are sitting here having a cup of coffee with me at the kitchen table. Blessings on your day!
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Thank you, Jean. I love talking with readers. But I’ll take tea instead of coffee for our morning chat. Is there any place better for a good visit than around a kitchen table? So glad you joined me this day and I would have love to hear whatever you are ready to chime in.
I love lots of windows. Thank you for answering my question. Have a blessed day.
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Thank you for asking a question for me to answer, Lucy. That’s sometimes the hardest part of any of my book talks to adults. Getting somebody to break the ice and ask a question. We are all so shy about speaking out in public. 🙂 I used to be too, but I got over it and really like talking about my writing now.